Elaine just called. We're still on for Sunday and I'm inordinately happy. Here's another REBT situation. I am unhealthily happy I think. My happiness must come from within me not from some outside situation.

What's the IB???

I like Ealine so I'm happy when she "seems" to reciprocate that feeling.
-This is love slobism - The people I love, or like, MUST feel the same way!!

Of course this is patently false. Who knows what the fuck Elaine is feeling. I'm projecting my feelings on her and trying to guess what she's thinking or worse what she's feeling. That's a no-win game absolutely.