Might as well state the obvious right off the bat. A breakup totally sucks! It only helps a very little to realize that these feelings are normal and, you could almost say, healthy! I mean, just think about it a little. If you don't feel bad and sad over a breakup then you must not have had strong feelings toward the other person. In which case you may be a psychopath.

I think the main thing to remember, right now, is that this will pass. You will feel better and better and better as time goes by.

So much I'm feeling so hard to put it down in words. I want to say how bad I feel but at the same time I do feel like there is a lifting of a burden. I mean I care for Lidia so very much but I've felt trapped and cheated for quite a long time now. And, yes, lied to. If she really didn't feel that she could work on improving our sex-life then I wish she would have came out and told me.